Lilith's Lair - Sensual Sapphic Event - 21st May

Welcome to Lilith's Lair - a sensual, intimate space for queer, bi/pansexual and bi-curious women, femmes & others that consider themselves part of the sapphic community, to explore each other away from the male gaze.

Event Details

Thursday 21st March 2026 | 8pm-1am | Brighton (Kemp Town, Secret Location) |

Last Entry 8.30pm 

This is our space for guests of all adult ages.

The Vibe

Lilith's Lair is relaxed, romantic, and inviting - a sensual space to connect, cuddle, flirt, and play. The party unfolds over four floors with six minimalist-style bedrooms, warm lighting, sensual music, and space for up to 50 carefully vetted guests.

Expect an atmosphere where you can be heard, respected, and fully seen.

We are proudly s*x-positive and sapphic focused.

Schedule & Arrival

Doors open at 8pm sharp. Please arrive by 8:30pm so you don't miss our consent-focused ice breakers and essential venue info. These are mandatory for new guests and those who haven't attended recently.

If you've been to two or more recent events, you're welcome to skip the ice breakers - just let us know ahead of time. We'll have some social activities available while you wait. Experienced guests can also make the most of the extra bed space before you are joined by the other guests.

What to Expect in the Space

• Sensual soundscapes (we do not have a DJ at these events, expect background music, we want you to be able to express your needs and desires and be HEARD)

• Soft lighting 

• Beds for cuddling, connection and intimate play

• A selection of toys and a dedicated mini impact play and K*nk room with select furniture

• A large downstairs social area, where play is prohibited so you have a no pressure space to chat
• A small patio for smoking/fresh air, socialising/noise levels do need to be kept to a minimum outside for the sake of our neighbours

• Up to 50 vetted Sapphics in attendance & well thought our guidelines by experienced hosts

• Attentive, friendly staff who monitor the spaces and vibe

Feel free to bring your own toys too ;)

Ice Breakers

We begin the night with a consent briefing, some casual ice breakers and optional hand massage, using luscious oils to help you ease into your body and the space. These opening moments are so important- please arrive on time so you can be a part of them. We now have a NO ICE-BREAKER/NO ENTRY rule for guests attending for the first time.

Following the ice breakers the night becomes a free flow experience where you can mingle, socialise, connect and more...

Dress Code (or Not)

We have no dress code at LL, as Sapphics we are too often told in society what our sexuality should look like. We want LL to be a place you can come exactly as you are, exactly as you are feeling.

We know that for some, no dress code, can be even more stressful than a strict dress code so as guidance we recommend wearing your favourite clean lingerie/pants and bringing along a silky robe, dress or shirt for over the top. You are welcome to dress to show off your k*nks more or dress as casually as you like.

Nudity is welcome

Location & Access

Our venue is inKemp Town, Brighton- exact address will be emailed to ticket holders the day before the event. Please note Skiddle requires a visible postcode, but it will not reflect the real location.

Sadly Lilith’s Lair can not offer refunds, returns or rollons due to the extremely high overheads for our events. However, you are within your rights to sell your ticket to another vetted member. We will always do our best to vet a new member (if done in good time) if you are looking to sell on your ticket. 

Regretfully, our current venue is not wheelchair accessible - we're still searching for that elusive accessible AND sex-positive space. Please message if you have any accessibility needs and we'll do our best to support you.

Vetting Process

To attend, you must be vetted. This keeps our space safe, intentional, and grounded in consent.

To begin the process, email brightonkk@gmail.com with a photo ID or fleshed-out social media profile. 

Please note that vetting is done on a case-by-case basis, we are under no obligation to vet every one who requests and that there are many reasons why we may not feel this is the right event for you - for the safety of my staff we reserve our right to not give a reason if your vetting is declined but encourage guests to wait a year before reapplying. 

If planning to attend as a couple please note vetting needs to be done individually. Please let us know in your email if you are hoping to be vetted at the same time as another guest.

Once vetted, we'll send you the event password and more info.

Vetted guests must be willing to read paperwork and guidelines which are sent out to ensure attendees know what to expect and what is expected of them. 

E-mail us - brightonkk@gmail..com

Follow us for updates, read some reviews and get more of an idea of our vibe

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We can't wait to welcome you to the Lair.

Image credit: @lesleyburdettdarkart